Your man can be crazy for you: A must read for all girls.

Life is journey and it has different phases. Some phases might  be very romantic while some phases may make life look gloomy. Your love life also has phases but a happy and ever cherishing love life makes you feel young.
If you find your life is getting monotonous, being little naughty and crazy can make your life happening. A little attempt from your end can add spice in your life which we all want.
Here I share some golden rules which may make your man gets crazy for you and your closeness will increase. 

Your man can be crazy for you: A must read for all girls. 

1. Open up with your man and talk about everything including his touching you. Talk about your romantic moments, your memories and even do dirty talking which will make him sexual attracted towards you. Tell him the sex positions you like and how you like when he comes close to you. This conversation will make him go crazy for you.
2. Add up some adventure to your life. May be you both can go for long drive, playing some sports together or even going out for holidays. These adventurous things makes you both feel refreshed and get crazy for each other.
3.Give him surprises by arranging candle light dinner or by dressing up in a way he likes. Be little sexy in your appearances. Go out for long walk and spend quality time together with each other.
4. Don't ignore your personal grooming as well. Take care of yourself and your body. Sexy body and looks always attract man, this is a secret which we all are aware of.
5. Let him know that you enjoy his closeness towards you. You love when he hugs you, kisses you. You can even surprise him with a random kiss or by touching his private part. This will make him crazy for you and know your naughty intentions.
6. Dancing together also brings closeness and your partner loves those moments. Singing together or even watching movie together makes you both come close to each other. Don't miss chances of coming close.
7. After those romantic moments when it comes to sex, don't go straight into it. Enjoy foreplay and take lead by playing with his private part to drive him crazy for you. Wear your sexy lingerie and give him surprise by coming over him and behaving like wild cat. He will definitely go mad for you and will eat you up.. I bet.
Your naughtiness and crazyness can make your life full of energy and charm. So make your man crazy for you and don't let your life go on dull track.
Love life... Live life!!!
Yours
Rati Rai

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Lets talk about Love and infatuation

Love is strong feeling for someone which grows with time whereas infatuation is feeling for short time merely due to attraction or desire to have someone for you.
Life span of infatuation is limited whereas love lasts for longer time or its bond for lifetime. Infatuation may be considered as a part of love in one sense as if you are close to someone and have feelings for him/her, you start infatuating towards her. But if we look both of them in detail, they are totally different and are not complimentary to each other. 

Lets talk about Love and infatuation

1.Infatuation is instant reaction and you become crazy for someone and want to have that person for you. You have physical desires for that person and you keep on thinking for the one all day and night. On the other hand love is a bond which develops with time and you have feelings for someone which is affection, care and you get emotionally attached to that person. If you are in real love you become a more mature person and your behaviour is much more calmer. You want that person in your life to hold your hand and walk side by side in all ups and down and not just for physical satisfaction.
2.You become possessive if you are infatuated for someone and that thing wants you to have that person for you but in case of love you let things go and you start building deep connection with some person. His all good becomes good for you and all bad becomes bad for you. Your soul starts getting connected with the other person.
3.Generally friendship preludes love and time spend together and bonding established give roots to love to blossom. Infatuation is all of a sudden and desire emerges in it and you start behaving like a child and can do anything to get that person for you.
4.You start becoming insecure if that person talks to someone else and also aggressive sometimes in case of infatuation whereas you have full believe in yourself that the other person will be yours and you never get aggressive.
5. You can be infatuated with number of persons but you fall in love with only one person. It is life long feeling for someone. Love has power to heal you up but infatuation destroys you and make you sick. 

Lets talk about Love and infatuation

Love is life long experience and a feeling which goes through all ups and downs but you have same bonding for that person and your relationship keeps on getting mature with time. So lets all fall in love and make life worthy of living.
Love life.. Live life!!!
Yours
Rati Rai.

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Periods:Role of man during those days

Menstruation is the 4-5 days cycle in women every month scenerio when she finds not that comfortable as she is on rest of the days. She may have cramps, low abdomen pain, back pain and frequent mood swings. It is exhaustic time for women because of harmonal changes inside her body.Husband have very important role to play during that time. 

Periods:Role of man during those days

1.If husband understands that his wife is not comfortable in those days and try to talk to her, get close to her emotionally, try to listen to her and be as close as you can to her without being physically close will make her feel comfortable. It is your love and care which she will cherish and forget about her crankyness.

2.Hug her, take her for a drive, kiss her and walk with her hand in hand at the time she is feeling low. Believe me she will feel on top of world and forget all uneasyness and your relationship will be on next level.

3.Please keep away your sexual desires that time and don't try to get physically close to her. She will appreciate this gesture of yours.

4.If she is feeling very low because of this, talk to her all that what she wants to listen. Three magical words I love you can also do the magic and she will feel better.

Your little care and love will help her cope with any of circumstances. It is you what she needs all the time.

Enjoy your life and showing bit of concern for each other can do magic.
Love life... Live life!!!

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Mother in law ( wife's mother) factor in your married life: How should it be tackled

According to Indian custom, girls after marriage have to go to husband's place leaving their parents place. It is obvious that love for your parents cannot be reduced but one has to get adjusted in new life as well. It has been seen these days many problem in married life of couples is caused due to interference of wife's mother.

It is fact that mother's love for her daughter is extreme and has no comparison. Mother can do anything for her daughter and daughter's are close to their mothers.For a mother, her daughter is always a child and she loves her from core of her heart. A small pinch to daughter can cause pain to mother as she loves her more than herself.

Mother in law ( wife's mother) factor in  your married life: How should it be tackled   

Now, in new married life, there is new family with which her daughter has to cope with. She is not familiar to anyone and we all know no two people are unique.Adjustment in new environment takes time for sure. If it is love marriage then she might have bonding with her husband but in case of arrange marriage, bonding is restricted to the exposure they both have got to know each other in courtship phase and that is limited in most of cases specially in middle class families.

Now in new environment things will be favorable and some things might not be favorable so newly married girl becomes upset and shares the feeling with her mother. For mother she is still a small baby and she cannot resist if anything is done against her daughter mood or like. She may ask her daughter to oppose or will see things only from her daughters perspective.Her advises may harm the new relationship of her daughter. 

Now if the situation is tackled tactfully things can be better. Fact here is no one wants to spoil the relationship and there is no ones fault. Following points should be remembered to make relations happier and healthier.

1) Girl should understand that it is new beginning of her life and her role as a person has changed. She has to play a mature role now. She might feel things bad but she should not communicate everything to her mother who is listening and reacting only by knowing one perspective that too of her loved one.

2) Girl must not hesitate in talking to her husband about the situation if she is unable to tackle and husband should intervene maturely as it is his responsibility to provide healthy environment to his wife, a new member to family.

3) A little patience is required as your new life is like a plant which  you are planting and it requires  lot of care and love to grow. So, dont be too aggressive and try to be loving and caring.

4)It is your new life and time to get close to your husband, forget all other persons around you and keep your mind fresh and enjoy ths precious moment of life.

The more you will support your wife to handle things by yourself the more attachment of girl will be towards your family and this is must for any relationship and girls also should not be childish and handle this phase delicately. Believe me once you are through this phase , life will be fun . Infact life is always fun ..its your perspective which needs to be positive!!!

Love life...live life!!!

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What can one do if partner wants divorce

Bringing any relationship to end is matter of seconds. But it takes long to bring relationship bloom. It requires lot of love, care, commitment and respect to bring flowers in any relationship.
It is most difficult time when one starts thinking of taking divorce but lot can be done to stop the other one to think so. Some deliberate efforts can help you bring your relationship back on track. 

What can one do if partner wants divorce

1. Straightly ask your partner why he thinks so. And tell that you can never think of living away from him. Open up the door to communication.
2. Ask your partner to write down the reasons for taking divorce from you and you write down why you don't want divorce if this is the case and share your writings with each other. Don't discuss on each point but read what other has written. After sometime say over a night you can discuss because after giving sometime for thinking your perspective might have changed.
3.Try to listen to your partner and speak less. Have patience in yourself if you really don't want divorce. Think of the things from others point of view also.
4.Take out some time for meditation as this will make you calmer and you will be able to not over react while having discussion.
5.Talk about the good times you both have spend in your relationship together and try to find out the real reason behind the cause of frustration and introspect yourself that how much you are responsible for it. 

What can one do if partner wants divorce

6. Even you can involve some good friend of you both to sit and counsel both of you or you can go to professional marriage counsellor for advice.
Relationship are life blood so preserve them with love, care, trust and understanding.
Enjoy life...
Live life... Live life!!!

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How to deal with partner who is too dominating

If your partner is dominating i. e. who takes most of decisions of your life too and who controls you, your life can be miserable. Being in love with such a person reduces your chances of getting apart from him also.
Initially, you may think that let life go smoothly and may not interfere in the way you are being controlled but life becomes tough as it goes on.
Here I suggest you some ways which can make your life easy and help you to live with each other peacefully.
1. You should never let things go but you should resist that you also have a choice. You should tell your partner that it is not that you like what he do but it is you also want to do on your own also. Conversate your spouse about your likes and dislikes.
2. Make your partner aware that you don't like his this sort of behaviour. Make your spouse aware that this sort of behaviour troubles you and often cause stress. Let the point be clear that if decision is taken mutually you appreciate it and it is not that you want to dominate your partner.
3. Take some decisions by yourself also. This will make your partner realise that you are independent and have your own thoughtprocess.
4.Don't follow a diplomatic approach. Clear and assertive approach is always appreciable. So always tell your point but in a soft polite tone and language
5. Last but not least it is you two who can improve your relationship. So talk to each other and try to improve your concerns. A little help from family and friends may help but ultimately you two have to work on betterment of your relationship.  Frustration and stress in any relationship can finish it. Nurture your relationship with love and care so that it is long lasting and you enjoy your life.

How to deal with partner who is too dominating

So enjoy life.. Love life.. Live life!!!

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What to do if you think your partner is cheating with you

In relationship, trust is utmost important. But if you get to sense that your partner is going along with someone else, you start feeling low and you find all your love, affection and trust is broken.
Here I want to say that only thinking about your partner is cheating without any proof or certainty, you should not over react but make all possible ways to know the truth.
Till you get to know the truth, don't let your trust get broken. Here are certain things which you should do in such situation:
First of all try to remember all instances that made you think so. Write them down on piece of paper. Then after a while when your mind is cool read them again and analyse how important these reasons can be. 

What to do if you think your partner is cheating with you

You should think of your relationship with your partner and how much love and care you share with each other. Try to note down all romantic goodie moments you have shared together.
Also try to figure out is your relationship going on right track these days. Think on the line are you giving each other ample time.
If you find after writing that things are not that bad as you may be imagining then conversation holds the key. Talk to your partner may be directly and find out the answer to your suspicion. This step will let you know the reality.
See trust is most important in relationship. If trust is broken there is end of relationship because love and care are flowers of trust. Sometimes misunderstandings can ruin relationship. On the other hand, if other one is cheating seriously than there is no forgiveness but don't let your relationship get spoiled because of just misunderstanding.
Love life.. Live life!!!

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