Every girl has a dream about her Suhaagraat(first night). The day she gets engaged, the feeling which is at back of her mind is how will she get that close to her partner, how will be that moment, how will first sex experience be like. These feelings are that intense that excitement starts rising and the romantic talks and meetings during courtship phase make it all happen.
There are certain points to remember before you actually are ready for first night(Suhaagraat)
1) You must be familiar with the fact that if you might have slight bleeding after having sex(if you have deep penetration) because of hymen breaking. But don't be surprised because this hymen may be broken before also because of some hard physical exercise etc. This is natural process and does not cause pain. So don't have tension
2) Being nervous is obvious but you should try to overcome this nervousness as this is also important part of life and your body wants it. So prepare yourself for it with positive mind. Believe me it is exciting and you will feel satisfied and relieved after that.
There are certain points to remember before you actually are ready for first night(Suhaagraat)
1) You must be familiar with the fact that if you might have slight bleeding after having sex(if you have deep penetration) because of hymen breaking. But don't be surprised because this hymen may be broken before also because of some hard physical exercise etc. This is natural process and does not cause pain. So don't have tension
2) Being nervous is obvious but you should try to overcome this nervousness as this is also important part of life and your body wants it. So prepare yourself for it with positive mind. Believe me it is exciting and you will feel satisfied and relieved after that.
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| Things girls must know before their first night, Suhaagraat |
3) It is not that only boys can initiate, you can also take some initiative. This will help your partner to make the mood easily set. If you cannot initiate at least try to provide platform or opportunity to your partner to initiate by not over reacting.
4)The more you will get involved more will be the satisfaction and you both will enjoy it. So participate as much as possible.
5)Generally groom give gift to bride but you can also give some personalised gift to your husband, this will make things exciting and your feelings will be conveyed too
6)Be sure you have cleaned your private part. Because cleaning is also important for adding excitement.
7)Be sure that you are not very tired or exhausted. Being tired or exhausted can make things look bad but believe me it is exciting and satisfying feeling. If you are physically tired convey this message to your partner too.
8)This day is a day when two souls become one. Body will be one if souls are one. So keep that in mind and try to be as open as you can.There is no compulsion to have sex on this very day, so if you want time communicate that too. Your partner will definitely understand.
9) If you have some past, forget it. Keep your mind clean and fresh and take things as new and lifelong phase of life. Love these moments as they make the foundation for rest of your life.
10)Plan to have sexy outfit ready to wear for you. If you get chance and your partner wants it, wear it and try to overcome your shyness.
IT'S YOUR DAY.. ENJOY TO FULLEST.. THESE FEELINGS YOU WILL CHERISH FOR LIFETIME.. SO LIVE, LOVE THOSE MOMENTS. THESE ARE THE MOMENTS WHICH WILL BRING A SMILE OR EVEN MAKE YOU WET WHEN YOU THINK ABOUT THEM IN FUTURE...
Love life... Live life!!!
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